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June 29, 2013 by kevinstilley

Walk Two Moons

Walk Two Moons

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It is easy to see why this book was selected as a Newberry Medal winner (1995).  A bittersweet story of family and friendship, home and adapting to a new normal.

The book is not without its problems; the main character Salamanca Tree Hiddle prays to trees  and on a number of occasions the character development suffers as the 13-year old girls act and talk more like 10-year old girls. About halfway through it may be tempting to write it off as another melancholy angst-ridden tale like those that are currently so popular with teens.  However, don’t stop reading!  This story has an ending that had me crying like a little girl — but in a good way.  Stick with it and you will be rewarded.

I highly recommend the book, but with the following caveat – adults need to read the book if their children are reading it and be prepared to discuss some of the topics covered in this sophisticated plot-line; abandonment, death, grief, boy-girl relationships and dating, openness and honesty between children and parents – and, of course, “Don’t judge a man until you have walked two moons in his moccasins.”

I encourage Christian parents to challenge their young reader to be analytical about the story resolution as it is depicted in the book.  Ask your young’un how and why a Christian might approach the situation differently.  Discussing that question alone is reason enough for both parent and child to invest the time in reading this enjoyable and provocative tale.

Filed Under: Blog, Books, Family Tagged With: abandonment, Books, death, grief, Newberry, Teen Books

February 12, 2011 by kevinstilley

Tears – select quotes

My tears are the words with which I tell God of my pain.
~ Adofo Quezada

Waste not fresh tears over old griefs.
~ Euripides

I had known Redival’s tears ever since I could remember. They were not wholly feigned, nor much dearer than ditchwater…. It’s likely enough she meant less mischief than she had done (she never knew how much she meant) and was now, in her fashion, sorry; but a new brooch, much more a new lover, would have had her drying her eyes and laughing in no time.
~ Character in Till We Have Faces: A Myth Retold

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Trivia

Babies’ eyes do not produce tears until they are approximately six to eight weeks old.

Filed Under: Blog, Quotes Tagged With: grief, joy, pain, quotations, Quotes, sorrow, Tears

December 15, 2010 by kevinstilley

Normal Responses to Grief and Loss

What is normal when it comes to grief and loss?  There isn’t really a “normal”.  However, the document at the link below might help you understand some of what to expect.

Normal Responses to Grief and Loss

Filed Under: Blog, Pastoral Care Tagged With: counseling, depression, grief, Loss, Pastoral Care, sorrow

November 25, 2009 by kevinstilley

Grief – select quotes

Several weeks ago I attended a training session on how to care for those who are grieving. The training leader emphasized the importance of helping the individual who has suffered loss move from the mourning process (internal feelings) to the grieving process (expressing their feelings of loss). As I looked around the room it became obvious that a large number of those attending were themselves dealing with grief. It is much more present in the lives of those around us than we suspect. Perhaps the following quotes will be helpful for you or someone you love.

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One grief support group facilitator told me, “If it was a sudden death, people say, ‘At least she didn’t suffer.’ If it was an anticipated death, they say, ‘At lest you had time to say good-bye.’ Neither way is easier or less painful. They’re just different, and they both hurt deeply.
~ Kenneth C. Haugk, in A Time To Grieve (Journeying Through Grief, Book One)

No one ever told me that grief felt so much like fear.
~ C.S. Lewis, in A Grief Observed

If there is a wide gulf between your faith and feelings right now because of the hurt and pain you are feeling, that’s not hypocrisy—that’s honesty.
~ Joey O’Connor, in Heaven’s Not a Crying Place: Teaching Your Child About Funerals, Death, and the Life Beyond

When you lose a parent you lose your past; when you lose a spouse you lose your present; when you lose a child you lose your future.
~ Unknown

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Filed Under: Blog, Front Page, Quotes Tagged With: grief, Loss, quotations, quote, sorrow

March 2, 2008 by kevinstilley

Depression / The Blues

Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be.
~ Abraham Lincoln

Ten rules for getting rid of the blues: Go out and do something for someone else – and repeat it nine times.
~ Unknown

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: Blog, blues, depression, dismay, grief, happiness, mental health, Quotes, sorrow, Worldview

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